You're completely correct, and I'd like to think that's what I've done (or tried to do) throughout rather than trying to shut anyone down, although I can't say my responses were unemotive. My goal has always been to educate and create understanding from the perspective of someone on the inside.Rather than all hanging up the guy, shaming him for having a different viewpoint , and essentially trying to shut him down….perhaps we let Dick express himself. Listen to his views. And in a calm considered unemotive way try to respond to his points.
I disagree with his views but the world is stronger from listening to a range of views and talking them out gently.
Force them underground and they can’t be addressed or evolved.
I think we are slowly moving towards a big tipping point in equality, acceptance and tolerance. Not just for LGBTQ+, but for all minorities and targeted groups. But until we get there the need to educate remains - I just hope it is done in the right way. The moment we start to abuse and lynch people is the moment we become part of the problem - even if our intentions are good.