Two issues that I keep coming back to.
Firstly...."It's what the majority voted for and it is what we must enact".
It's very easy to conflate the majority who voted with the majority of the (voting age) population. I get the argument that you should vote to be counted but in the terms of a simple referendum question, it is a very different type of vote to an election.
At an election, something has come to an end, either because law requires it or the current government desire it. We are asked to choose the next thing and persons to replace it. If you stay silent, you have to make do with what people do choose.
At the referendum, it was a choice between maintaining what we already had and choosing something different. In hindsight, wouldn't it have been better to inform those eligible to vote that you will be taken to accept the status quo if you do not express a contrary opinion - ie, carry on as we were and make it a binding, rather than advisory vote, it may compel more people to engage if they felt that strongly.
Secondly, this belief that "the will of the people" is somehow infallible. No it isn't and history is littered with examples where the supposed "will of the people " has been manipulated with disastrous consequences.
Given what we know about the undeliverables that were promised (on both sides) not to mention the fact that campaigns have been proved to be on breach of electoral law, given the consequences and nature(ie once in a generation, not once in 5 year parliament) of that change, should we not expect the whole process to have been above reproach and be demonstrably so?
How can you be happy that such a decision has been achieved through ill-gotten means and a dirty, grubby, shady and shameful process?
Whether or not you believe in leave or remain is almost becoming irrelevant. What we should all agree on is that the whole process from inception of the referendum, the press coverage for decades leading up to it, the way the main players and those with vested interests have been allowed to play fast and loose with throw away lines faux concern and dodgy assertions, is a shameful episode in our democratic history.
We should consign the whole process to the bin and start again and change politics for good as part of that process. The current system is FUBAR.
Second point is about how we have negotiated and how we have been forced to do it in a certain way. I really don't get this argument.
We decided to leave, we decided to break the contract, we decided to ask for the divorce.
In real life, how far would you get if you then tried to dictate the terms of that negotiation?
And in any case, it was our government who agreed to those terms (you know, the ones "we" elected).
I also don't get this "it would be better with a brexiteer at the helm". How? What would they do better? How would they be better able to negotiate? Or would (as I very much suspect) be staring firmly down the barrel of no deal..which parliament would never support in any case. Only the swivel-eyed disaster capitalists, those too rich and insulated from the true impact and those whove been told "it will all be great and you'll soon be in the sunlit uplands" see that as a plausible option...don't they?