As someone who admits to having changed their own mind about being in the EU, why can't you accept that others might have done the same?
Several reasons.
1. "We" (the electorate) waited 40+ years to be asked again.
2. "We" (the electorate) gave our politicians a simple instruction. Leave the EU.
3. "They" (the politicians) promised to implement the will of "Us" (the electorate).
4. The result. A majority won in the largest political event this country has seen.
5. A few hundred people in parliament are as split as the country was, however their overall balance is in a polar opposite to the people.
6. We will now have to endure more uncertainty, EU elections and similar waste. The position isn`t changing.
What we were in was a trade agreement, the majority don`t have an issue with that. It was simplified as such in the 70`s and the electorate was far less well informed and certainly were not told what it would become.
When we became better informed, & the cuckoo in the nest had had 40+ years to grow, we woke up and decided we didn`t want it any more.
How many times do you want to "Ask the people" ? Bearing in mind the result of what we voted for hasn`t even been delivered yet!
PS: "Losers" is not derogatory..... its a statement of fact. In a two horse race one wins, one loses................ although it seems society now thinks that anyone "losing" is harshly treated.