I find it all a bit sad; sad that Harry has publicly detached himself from his family and sad that he allowed himself to marry an attention seeking actress. So many people saw trouble coming when they got together, it’s sad for him and his family that he didn’t, or hoped for the best.
Or maybe, the life that he's now living is way better than the one he left? Wife, two kids, a couple of dogs and a mansion in Santa Barbara? I think a lot of people would take that.
Versus being part of the royal family, which is a life of great luxury, global profile and complete and total servitude. It's high living, sure, but it's also letting others completely dictate your life, down to the tiniest details.
So yeah, it's always a bit sad when families break apart, but Harry is hardly the first rich kid to decide he might enjoy a bit more freedom if he escaped his family - and I can't blame him for a second.
The only thing I would criticize Meghan for is being naive, and not having the foresight to see what life was going to be like as a royal, and having the hubris to think she could change a millennium-spanning institution from the inside. They should have properly eloped on Day One - spared themselves some of the pain, and all of us much of the hand-wringing.
(also, whilst it must suck having a horribly racist grandfather-in-law, it's not as if that wasn't well documented a hundred times over!)