BDJ
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There’s an oik who sits a couple of rows behind us who is really loud and abusive towards the ref at every home game, usually for no rational reason. Over and over and over again he bellows “ref, you’re an absolute c*nt. Your family aren’t proud of you.” etc. etc.
Most people around us are fed up with him. I’ve got no problem with loud support and banter, but this is just unjustified, irritating, noisy abuse. Not to mention there are plenty of kids around hearing it. The irony is his Mum sits next to him in silence as he unloads!
I turned around the other week and said “Alright, mate, we get the message”, which calmed him down a bit, but the next game he was just as bad.
Inside the ground are posters (see below) that encourage us to report unsavoury behaviour, including “FOUL – abusive language and behaviour”. The question is should I report him? He’s not (yet) dished out any racist or homophobic abuse, which I would 100% report, but he’s pretty distasteful at every single game. What say you?
Most people around us are fed up with him. I’ve got no problem with loud support and banter, but this is just unjustified, irritating, noisy abuse. Not to mention there are plenty of kids around hearing it. The irony is his Mum sits next to him in silence as he unloads!
I turned around the other week and said “Alright, mate, we get the message”, which calmed him down a bit, but the next game he was just as bad.
Inside the ground are posters (see below) that encourage us to report unsavoury behaviour, including “FOUL – abusive language and behaviour”. The question is should I report him? He’s not (yet) dished out any racist or homophobic abuse, which I would 100% report, but he’s pretty distasteful at every single game. What say you?