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Current Staff The Des Buckingham Apology Thread

I’ll start.

I admit when the rumour mill started that Des was in contention, his lack of EFL experience worried me and I wanted another candidate.

He became manager, I of course wanted him to do well and prove me wrong.

Fast forward a few months and I admit I thought he was out of his depth. But am so glad to be proved wrong. I hated how toxic things were getting towards an OUFC fan.

Well done Des and sorry.
 
I think people were definitely right to say things were going badly for a while, and to have legitimate doubts, but let me just remind people of what I kept saying: "A manager needs to be given time."

Don't forget this next it's relevant, please, people!
 
Oh I am only too happy to apologise.

Sincerely too. A few months back I honestly couldn’t see a way back, the tactics were off, the performances were dreadful, game plans were a thing other teams did, and Des looked utterly beaten.

I have genuinely never wanted an appointment to work as much as Des, I really like him and the history, but I just thought it was one step too far.

It’s been incredible the turnaround, but the biggest thing is Des himself. He has a huge presence now, owns the technical area, and that carries through to the team.

I have learnt a very valuable lesson around patience.

I’m absolutely delighted for him.
 
I was definitely a fence sitter, not willing to applaud or criticise the appointment..

Today I'm obviously delighted Des is here. Championship fixture list for 2024/25 looks significantly more attractive than League One 2023/24!
 
My best mate is a Wednesday fan. He was critical of Des but sent me an apology yesterday which I post below for the hell of it:

I owe Des an apology, genuinely thought he was out of his depth- especially after you got hammered by this lot. He must feel so great right now
 
I remember defending him in the early days when we weren’t playing particularly great but plodding along. I felt he needed more time and patience to get going but then I was incredibly disappointed and hurting after the Bolton 5-0, because it was so awful I wouldn’t have been too bothered if he had walked, things had got quite toxic as mentioned.

I am so so glad he didn’t and I can’t thank him enough for what has happened since, absolute masterclass in setting the team up to be so hard to beat. What a guy, he deserves all the accolades.
 
I felt he was doing a bad job, and didn’t have much faith in him turning it around, but I did always say I thought it was way too early to talk about getting rid of him
 
Full on apology from me. I really wanted him to succeed. I thought the 'PE Teacher' jibes were just stupid. But I was getting increasingly concerned. After the Bolton 0-5, I thought he'd have to go. Very pleased to find out I was completely wrong!
 
I really wanted him to come to Oxford but when it got tough for him , I thought it was a step too far . I’m glad it’s worked out great guy , fantastic coach & a Oxfordshire lad as well , what more could we want … new ground anyone !
 
I felt after Bolton there was an inevitability about it and all that was keeping him in the job was compensation the club didn’t want to part with. It didn’t seem like there was any hope for him beyond that game as the team looked absolutely defeated, rudderless and disengaged and I remember the post match like it was yesterday - it was a miserable night.

Just what happened after that game, the conversations had, only he and the players know. I can’t remember a turnaround anywhere in football recently quite like this one. Bolton had been building up to that moment for 2 seasons and we’ve done them over even with all the challenges we faced and still have within the squad - not least the fact we’ve had one striker all season!!!

I will at least be right about one thing, I did say the Bolton result could be the most vital one of our season and wouldn’t it be just football to meet them in the play offs for revenge… This game has a habit of throwing these stories up and this promotion isn’t far off a miracle from where we were in February.

I’m not sorry for how I felt at the time as I say what I see, but I do now wish I’d been a little more open to the possibility he might turn it around. Lesson learned.
 
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