Ultimately, what this season is already proving is that streaming is no threat to football. If you can go to a game, you’re going to go to a game - nobody is picking the current ‘experience’ over the real thing unless going isn’t an option to begin with. There’s a reason the US networks have been broadcasting basically every game in every sport for years, and the stadiums / arenas are still full regardless. You can’t beat the real thing. But if you have both, where people who can go do, and those who can’t can stream for a reasonable price, the end result will be a positive one. People won’t take going to a match for granted again, and on the flip side nobody has to fear letting somebody from Stafford stream a match on a weekend that they can’t attend anyway. It’s better than nothing (when it actually bloody works), but the stadium is where everybody wants to be. And when there are people in the ground, even watching it on a screen improves as a result. Without stadiums filled with people, none of it really works.
I think most football clubs are doing a fairly lousy job of keeping supporters engaged, across all divisions. Everything feels very separate and there needs to be much more interactivity. Online fans forums / QA’s, regular content across all digital and social media platforms - there’s nowhere near enough going on that attempts to genuinely reach out and bridge the gap between fans and their club. That applies to nearly every last one of the 92 - it’s bigger than OUFC. Football as a whole has really failed, and been shown up quite badly to have any real clue as to what it’s doing once the turnstiles no longer spin. The latest Premier League shenanigans with the Box Office games being held hostage for £15 a pop, plus all the absolute nonsense with the EFL and their total inability to govern on almost any level, has really shown that the game is out of touch with the supporters. Now that the routine and tradition, and the experience of a match day is gone, it’s like discovering that the very tall man wearing the trench coat is actually just three midgets on each other’s shoulders. Some have done better than others, and some are in far worse trouble than others financially, but overall much of the sport could do a little more to try to think of ways to harness that community spirit.
I absolutely understand how and why some people are struggling to stay connected with it, but I think a part of that is probably personal as well. It’s a hard time for almost everybody - lots of uncertainty, the feeling that nothing is really getting better and worrying if it’s going to get worse still, just as the days get shorter, darker and colder. That will start to play into and affect people’s mood and perspective, so I would be careful about taking the approach of “Grow a pair, you big girl’s blouse! Real fans understand that they need to dig deep!” You just never know what someone is dealing with or what they’ve got going on that can start to slowly eat away at the things they previously enjoyed. A lot of people depend on football to get through the week, or provide them with an outlet and a place to escape for a few hours every other weekend. It’s such a massive part of a lot of people’s lives and plays a really important role for a great deal of people. So just be careful about criticising someone for daring to say they’re having a bit of a wobble with it.
I hope that the OP manages to stick with it, and that a win or two can help with that in the near future. The next 6/7 months in general, let alone in the context of a football season, are simply about getting through the sludge. But we will get through it.