Thing is, it’s not the cinema, it’s not just for ‘entertainment’, you’re meant to be a supporter, and the protagonists can see if you’ve sloped off. Fair enough that people have stuff going on and car issues etc, and letting in six is a special case, but I bet fans in hotbeds like Newcastle and Sunderland don’t all leave if they’re losing. I can walk home and i always want to see what happens, I’m not claiming any personal moral superiority.Yes, it was a penalty. Off side? debatable. Left early? Yes, we did, actually not long after they had scored number 6. We felt that the entertainment was over. Our choice and yes, it did make getting out of the carpark less frustrating than normal.
We can accept losing, once in a while but, that margin was embarrassing and served to highlight the disparity between those teams that have ownership of their own ground, the numbers they can attract and the finance that both factors bring into play and, teams like Oxford who, despite having achieved inclusion on merit, have to suffer under the disproportionate application of finance that is the EFL and Premiership.
Thing is, it’s not the cinema, it’s not just for ‘entertainment’, you’re meant to be a supporter, and the protagonists can see if you’ve sloped off. Fair enough that people have stuff going on and car issues etc, and letting in six is a special case, but I bet fans in hotbeds like Newcastle and Sunderland don’t all leave if they’re losing. I can walk home and i always want to see what happens, I’m not claiming any personal moral superiority.
Thing is, it’s not the cinema, it’s not just for ‘entertainment’, you’re meant to be a supporter, and the protagonists can see if you’ve sloped off. Fair enough that people have stuff going on and car issues etc, and letting in six is a special case, but I bet fans in hotbeds like Newcastle and Sunderland don’t all leave if they’re losing. I can walk home and i always want to see what happens, I’m not claiming any personal moral superiority.
Ha , I do recall that. I was more taking issue with people leaving because 'We felt that the entertainment was over'.I recall Gary Lineker making a quip on MOTD about Sunderland during one of their relegation years when in the PL. He said ‘beat the traffic at the Stadium of Light by staying until the end’.
It happens everywhere around the country. The bigger the battering, the more people who’ll leave before the end.
It certainly makes it quicker to get away. We reiterate the point made in the Fans view about the car parks, which was not clear on the radio.The car park situation certainly had a lor to do with seats emptying - a good winning situation and people will put up with it (most probably!)
Our leaving with a few minutes of the game remaining was motivated by our not enjoying what we were seeing but also, the thought of sitting in the car park seething at the result and the ever increasing impatience to get home whilst enduring the usual "bumper car" mentality of some drivers adding to the depressing story. Walking home avoiding any delays and frustration must be wonderful, however, many others do not enjoy that easy exit.Ha , I do recall that. I was more taking issue with people leaving because 'We felt that the entertainment was over'.
Yes, I know you personally are a very loyal supporter, I was just taking issue with your wording. I’m not sure how often football is really‘entertainment’, it’s often too tense to qualify for that term.Our leaving with a few minutes of the game remaining was motivated by our not enjoying what we were seeing but also, the thought of sitting in the car park seething at the result and the ever increasing impatience to get home whilst enduring the usual "bumper car" mentality of some drivers adding to the depressing story. Walking home avoiding any delays and frustration must be wonderful, however, many others do not enjoy that easy exit.
We are not casual fans of the club. We are not "plastic support" and if we decide to leave early, that's up to us and should not be the basis for anyone to take issue. There have been many occasions when we have stayed long after the final whistle to applaud the players, to chat to staff etc, Indeed, it is something we are looking forward to with the new stadium with all the promise of hospitality and ease of travel arrangements.
It may not fit your interpretation of a supporter if we leave early but, it's our prerogative and no-one else's and, as far as we are concerned, does not diminish our standing as supporters.
I left when we were six nil down against Wigan that time.
Good decision.
I stayed to the end #trufanI left at seven before the final whistle, I’d seen enough.
I can't believe that people left at half time. Agree with you that those people will disappear for much of next season if we were to go down.Always an emotive one this leaving early thing. Always interested to gets differing opinions and watch the debate that follows I know some very loyal fans who have left early for whatever reason.
Here it was the sheer numbers and how early people started leaving that really struck me. I just wonder how the players, who undoubtedly were trying their hardest, felt.
Probably what is more annoying is regards those that left early that will be nowhere to be seen if we get relegated and then struggle. Note, that’s an IF
Yes that's why we stayed and as disappointed as we were we applaud ed the players off.At this moment in time they need the fans to stay with them.But anyone leaving early that's their choice coyy.Always an emotive one this leaving early thing. Always interested to gets differing opinions and watch the debate that follows I know some very loyal fans who have left early for whatever reason.
Here it was the sheer numbers and how early people started leaving that really struck me. I just wonder how the players, who undoubtedly were trying their hardest, felt.
Probably what is more annoying is regards those that left early that will be nowhere to be seen if we get relegated and then struggle. Note, that’s an IF
I can understand people leaving early, especially when we are 4 goals to the bad. As I said before though, I *cannot* understand people buggering off at half time when we are 2 down.
Due to illness I stayed at home for this game,at some stage this season I thought we would get a bit of a mauling from someone, hopefully that was the game, the injury list has not helped over the last month either in team selection, with bodies back things should improve I hope,only time will tell, with goals being hard to come by its a bit of a nervy time
Yes, of course there are always exceptions and I were with someone in the same situation I would of course go as well. But looking to the right out of the East Stand at half time there was a steady stream of people wandering off - call me cynical, but I suspect not all of them had a sudden pressing appointment elsewhere or a family member who needed to leave.I agree in the main, but thought also needs to given for the people who are being asked to leave by others, rather than them simply deciding enough is enough themselves.
By choice, I would never leave an Oxford game early, but my matchday experience has changed significantly this season as it's the first year my sons have joined me.
My youngest is autistic and, while he really enjoys being at a game, does not have the emotional toolkit required to accept and rationalise the highs and the lows of the personal investment, particularly during a loss. The West Brom game was difficult enough for us (until injury time!) but Saturday was simply too much for him.
He asked to leave before half time. While I'm a committed Oxford fan, I'm a father first and foremost, and the wellbeing of my son naturally takes precedence.
Just a thought.
And if half our home end lives in Hampshire or wherever that’s an issue in itselfYes, of course there are always exceptions and I were with someone in the same situation I would of course go as well. But looking to the right out of the East Stand at half time there was a steady stream of people wandering off - call me cynical, but I suspect not all of them had a sudden pressing appointment elsewhere or a family member who needed to leave.
Nobody is perfect of course - I have left matches a few minutes early (whatever the score) if I am playing a gig that night and have to get home in good time, and once managed to get to cup match at Brentford very late and managed to miss us scoring three goals!!!
And if half our home end lives in Hampshire or wherever that’s an issue in itself
My brother left early (not sat near me) but I didn't. Strange seeing as we were travelling in the same car!Thing is, it’s not the cinema, it’s not just for ‘entertainment’, you’re meant to be a supporter, and the protagonists can see if you’ve sloped off. Fair enough that people have stuff going on and car issues etc, and letting in six is a special case, but I bet fans in hotbeds like Newcastle and Sunderland don’t all leave if they’re losing. I can walk home and i always want to see what happens, I’m not claiming any personal moral superiority.
As I’ve said many a time I fully understand why some people have to leave early (or arrive late) – that for me demonstrates loyalty by turning up at all. Got to play a gig or be at a wedding or whatever but can watch about an hour without getting into trouble. Why not.I agree in the main, but thought also needs to given for the people who are being asked to leave by others, rather than them simply deciding enough is enough themselves.
By choice, I would never leave an Oxford game early, but my matchday experience has changed significantly this season as it's the first year my sons have joined me.
My youngest is autistic and, while he really enjoys being at a game, does not have the emotional toolkit required to accept and rationalise the highs and the lows of the personal investment, particularly during a loss. The West Brom game was difficult enough for us (until injury time!) but Saturday was simply too much for him.
He asked to leave before half time. While I'm a committed Oxford fan, I'm a father first and foremost, and the wellbeing of my son naturally takes precedence.
Just a thought.